Sunday, July 14, 2013

An Original Cowboy

It's no secret that I love the senior Goldens but I have to admit to being more than a little partial to the boys, they are my favorites.  There are people who will say that there is no difference between the boys and the girls, but I think there is. The girls are always a bit more serious, more focused and sometimes stubborn.  The boys just aren't that way.  I find them to be silly, funny and so often, charming and endearing.  Those are some of the same words that I would use to describe the next senior boy who would become part of our household that I named Cowboy.
It was around Valentine's day in February 2008 and I was asked to foster a senior Golden that was picked up as a stray, and was on his "last day" in a shelter around Charleston West Virginia.  When Carl and I first saw him, he was leashed to a tree in the backyard of a transport volunteer.  When he saw us, he stood up and started wagging his tail, and happily barking at us as if to ask where we'd been. With the leash in hand, he walked right over to our van and put his front feet up on the open side door, a signal for us to help him in and to get on with his adventure! Needless to say, I was totally smitten!!  However this boy that we'd just met had no name and several people suggested we name him something associated with Valentine's Day. But I named him "Cowboy" for a couple of reasons--He had on a rope-like collar, and with bowed-legs bent from age he walked with a slight limp. Along with a few missing front teeth it reminded me of a cowboy, and the name just really seemed to fit.
As we got to know Cowboy, it was easy to see what a kind, gentle and old soul he was. I've no idea what his prior life had been, but I had no doubt that wherever he was, he had to have had a few friends, he was just so charming.  Because he also got along so well with our dogs it didn't take long to decide that Cowboy should become a permanent member of our household; we adopted him that March.
Cowboy was always smiling and when he wagged his tail, it went in a big circle that was like a slow propeller.  He was all I loved about the male goldens; happy, big and really silly and really goofy.  He was also a handsome boy with a deep red curly coat and a totally white face, head and legs.  Cowboy had a little bit of laryngeal paralysis that caused him to have that raspy old dog bark that was always telling me when he wanted something--If his barking didn't get the attention he wanted, he would grab a hand or shirt, or whatever he could and pull you towards what he wanted, which was usually something related to the kitchen. He loved to eat!
My days with Cowboy always seemed brighter. On our walks he was always finding something to roll in, or would just stand there and bark and wag his tail.  His always present silly smile, never ever ceased to put one on my face too and everyone that met him.  
Our time with Cowboy would come to a sad end in March of 2010.  The winter had been a cold one with deep snow.  He'd been having problems with arthritis and he was having difficulty getting to his feet.  Soon he lost his appetite and would lay for hours in the same place. Outside there would be none of his continual tail wagging or barking, and there would be none of his usual rolling on whatever he could find.  Despite giving him pain medications, nothing seemed to help.  I could tell that his spark was fading. I took him to the vet on a cold rainy Saturday, hoping that there was something that could be done.  But it was decided that there was nothing; the kind thing to do would be to let Cowboy go and end his pain.
We had little time for goodbyes...I held Cowboy as he slipped into a deep sleep, leaving this life for the next and taking a big piece of my heart with him. Even now, more than three years later thinking about him still brings a smile to my face. Cowboy was one of those rare and special dogs who come around once a lifetime. Yes, we've had and will have other silly-goofy-male Goldens.  But he was in a class by himself and just like other Cowboys, he is a legend in our lives and there will never be another Cowboy.


  1. Oh Kim. As always I read your tales of love and loss and cry...and smile.
    Thank you for sharing your story with us.
    I wish I could give you a hug...maybe more for me than for you if truth be told.
    You have the heart of a lioness-courageous and strong. Loving so deeply is never an easy road.

  2. I love his white face and am so sorry you didn't get to keep him longer. It is clear that you loved him so very much. What a sweet boy.

  3. Such a wonderful tribute to sweet Cowboy, what a character he was!

    I can tell that you miss him deeply, and surely that is the greatest tribute - that you knew him, understood him, and that he was loved.


  4. My peep has never had girl dogs, and only scotties (till Floyd)... And she says we're "stubborn" I call it scottitude!

  5. Kim, Ever since Google Reader discontinued I have been way behind on my blog reading. Just wanted to say this is a beautiful post. It shows the wonderful heart you have and how we are so fortunate to have people like you to give these seniors, whatever time they have left, love and a wonderful home.
    God Bless You.

  6. What a wonderful tribute to Cowboy. I know what you mean about the males. I have noticed a difference in the intact Golden males and the boys who are snipped early on. Either way, they plow a deep trench through our heart that is there forever. I do remember when Cowboy passed. You did a fine job of writing his story. I'm sure it wasn't easy.

  7. You touch my heart! Golden's are one of the loveliest creatures on this earth.

  8. Oh Kim, what a beautiful story. He is a gorgeous boy. Bless you again, a million times over.

  9. Lovely golden retriever. This story is heartwarming. Loved it.

  10. Never forgotten never love, tweedles

  11. Good morning, thanks for sharing Cowboy's story. He sounded like a beautiful golden. But, then I have never met a golden I did not love. I am so glad Cowboy enjoyed the end of his days with you. Happy Friday, enjoy your weekend!

  12. Love these sweet old souls too. Better than puppy breath sometimes!

  13. This is a beautiful story. Cowboy, you were loved, and you are clearly missed!


  14. This is a beautiful story,and Such a sweet dog
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  15. Visiting you and learning about “your Cowboy.”
    Brings tears to my eyes . . . happy you had those two more years with him. Happy he had the two of you. You and husband are GOLDEN.


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